Since the last question got ignored I'll ask again.. (Although it looks
like all questions are being ignored now..)

How can I make a remote desktop connection to one of my machines when that
machine has turned around and made a VPN client connection to an outside

When my machines make a VPN connection outside, Zen somehow picks off the
new IP from the VPN device and (I'm assuming) tries to connect with that
new IP which is not valid for my network.

By the way..... - This lack of response on all these little "undocumented
features" was the nail in the coffin of BorderManager.