Is there a way for a user to request a remote control session, without
right-clicking on the remote control Icon and choosing request remote

I want to enable the feature without showing the icon in the systray.

The other option would be to show the icon in the systray, but disable
the ability to exit the program

Any ideas of how to create a NAL app for this?
I have to think it is a simple DLL hook, but I don't know for sure

I put in a request a while back, but never heard from Novell.