I updated our bm 3.7 master to bm 3.8 a few weeks back. The skip site to
site ran fine for 19 days. Something dropped over the weekend and I
cannot get it backup.

I thought I read somewhere that to make it stable I would need to use
imanager to enable vpnmaster and define the master info. I did that but
still no connection. Do I need traffic rules?
If I use nwadmin and force them to sync the slave does turn to update to
date so some traffic is passing but I cannot ping the vp tunnel or
private ip on the other site. No real errors in csaudit. Just shows
connections and disconects.

bm 3.8 no patches. NetWare 6 sp5
bm 3.7 sp4 netware 6 sp5.