BM version 3.6
there are a few sites with flash video that we can't access. If i disable
proxy it works. if I exclude the site from being cached it fails the site
works but the area on the page where the flash player should be is just

NON-cachable URL pattern is as follows:

http site any any any
site being the site ending with .com

Objects with a ? in the URL is set to DO NO CACHE OR SPLIT REPLIES

that doesn't help.

IF i go into IE and disable proxy settings and open up the firewall the
site works and the video plays as it should.

I'm not sure what else to try. any help would be appreciated.