RL 4.5.5 on 2012 R2 DC

The other day I deleted a group of about 60 computer objects from our AD domain. For some reason, the remote loader only recognized one deletion at a time and only processed one deletion about every three minutes. The events all get vetoed for being unassociated objects (as expected).

The problem was that anybody that changed their passwords, in windows, during the (roughly) three hour period that the computer deletions were processing, their passwords did not flow back to eDirectory.

Is there a way to prevent the RL from processing events from CN=Deleted Objects,DC=...?
Is there a file or something on the RL that we can manually remove the events (similar to what is on the IDM driver side) before they are processed?

thanks